He never brings you flowers, refuses to move in together until you're married and even though you love him, you're wondering, "Is he the one for me?" Who knows the magic combination to a great relationship? The best approach is to use your common sense. Ask yourself, "Am I happy in this relationship?" If not, figure out why. Even if solving the problem means going through a break-up, it is for the best.
Here are some solutions to a few common relationship woes:
Q: Even though my boyfriend can afford a flat screen TV, a new motorcycle and a membership to the local golf club, he says he has no money for an engagement ring. After 5 years I'm beginning to wonder: am I playing second fiddle to his toys?
A: Well, actually you are one of his toys. He has everything he wants and he doesn't have to work too hard to keep it. Rarely does this kind of person realize that they're taking you for granted. So, get a toy chest of your own - go on vacation without him, take a class, buy anything (within reason) your heart desires. When this gets his attention, make your demands - A ring, or you'll walk! But don't bluff: walk away if he doesn't deliver.
Q: I am very much in love with my boyfriend, however recently I have been thinking about my ex's and almost called one of them. Why am I all of a sudden looking to the past?
A: The answer is something could be wrong with the present. Are there any unmet expectations in your relationship that are spurring you to wonder..."What if?" Take a closer look at your relationship - do you yearn for more romance or are you bored? Your imagination may be telling you it's time to spice things up. Surprise him with a romantic dinner or getaway, then see if the spirit of your ex still haunts you.
Q: I think I'm in love with a mama's boy. He lives at home, she does everything for him and he refuses to move in with me because "she'll be lonely." Will he ever let go?
A: This is a difficult situation because no matter how much you complain, you will just drive him back to her. How about making friends with the enemy (so to speak). Make an effort to get to know her - ask her over for dinner, or go shopping together. You don't have to best pals, but at least abate her fears that you're taking her "baby" away. Also, try making homey dinners for you and your boyfriend, and show him how wonderful an "independent" life (without Mother) can be. 
